This is me for sure
Rogue Nation, Fallout, and Dead Reckoning all pointedly placing Benji and Ilsa in the most dangerous, stressful, downright torturous situations either together or separately where Ethan can’t reach/help them or is driven to the brink trying to.
“Can I tell you a story?”
“Has it got a wow finish?”
“I don’t know the finish yet.”
“Well, go on. Tell it - maybe one will come to you as you go along.”
Ethan, after Benji has once again volunteered him for an insane death-defying stunt: